Shadow Parenting Islamic Boarding School PPPTQKIDS Darul Qur'an Surabaya

Abstract

The purpose of this study is to describe how the efforts, motivation, supporting and inhibiting factors for Islamic boarding school caregivers form the independence of students.  Education regulated by an institution requires a parenting pattern that supports the achievement of the goals of an educational institution, especially pesantren (Islamic boarding schools).  Islamic boarding schools as one of the Islamic educational institutions or we all pesantren have the figure of a leader  or caretaker who is responsible for the Islamic boarding school . we usually call him kyai, he leads on an ongoing basis.  Islamic boarding schools describe parenting patterns that are adapted to the conditions of the students and growth habit and character also to the educational goals of the pesantren.  This research is a type of qualitative research whose results are described descriptively.  PPTQ KIds Darul Quran Islamic Boarding School under the tutelage of Ahmad Sholeh S.Ag.  M.Pd.I is a boarding school located in Tenggilis Mejoyo Kc 09 Surabaya city which is a boarding school or pesantren that focuses for  memorizing the Al-Quran and same study Islamic  and  combined with formal education.  The parenting pattern that is applied shows a combination of discipline, trust and also aspects of democracy but still upholds the individual aspects of each student so that they do not impose the same thing on each student.