Does Religiosity Affect Forgiveness When Moderated By Optimism In Infidelity Victim

Authors

  • Devie Yundianto Universitas Nahdlatul Ulama Indonesia
  • Ulfi Diva Zahrona Universitas Nahdlatul Ulama Indonesia
  • Rizkiani Amalia Universitas Nahdlatul Ulama Indonesia
  • Siti Mutia Anindita Universitas Nahdlatul Ulama Indonesia

Keywords:

religiostiy, forgiveness, optimism, infidelity

Abstract

An infidelity is an act that is difficult or even unforgivable by someone who experienced it. Even so, there are also people who are defended for various reasons. Previous research has value on the perpetrators of infidelity, so this study uses victims of infidelity to study, which can be a unique thing in this study. This research aims to determine whether the effect of religiosity moderated by optimism can affect the forgiveness of infidelity victims. This study has two hypotheses; the first hypothesis assumes that there is an influence between religiosity and optimism on forgiveness. The second hypothesis suspects that there is an effect between religiosity and forgiveness moderated by optimism. The research method used is a quantitative method with a convenience sampling technique. The results of the study showed that there was no effect between religiosity and optimism on forgiveness in the victim of infidelity. So the first hypothesis was rejected, and there was no effect between religiosity and forgiveness moderated by optimism in the victim of infidelity, so the second hypothesis was also rejected. However, there is a positive correlation between religiosity and optimism, as well as between optimism and forgiveness

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Published

02-01-2023

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Devie Yundianto, Ulfi Diva Zahrona, Rizkiani Amalia, & Siti Mutia Anindita. (2023). Does Religiosity Affect Forgiveness When Moderated By Optimism In Infidelity Victim. INTERNATIONAL CONFERENCE OF HUMANITIES AND SOCIAL SCIENCE (ICHSS), 511–518. Retrieved from https://programdoktorpbiuns.org/index.php/proceedings/article/view/185